this fixes warnings about no efreet dbus session bus in non session
environments as brought up on the mailing lists with:
Subject: Re: [E-devel] [EGIT] [core/efl] master 01/01: edje: unset
efreet cache update flag to prevent dbus connections
this moves all of efreetd client and server to ecore ipc, with client
auto-launching efreetd if not found as a service and trying for up to
500ms to connect. efreetd times out on last connection or no
connections after 10sec so it wont hang around forever if not in use.
it seems to work in my testing, so let me know if there is an issue.