so some clients just cant tile due to min size and this leads to
really bad results so pass the problem back to the user to go resize
them up to fit. this probably needs far more extensive layout logic.
the data struct is a tree but perhaps it needs to flatten out into a
table to make layouting more sane. but that's the future. for now be
less bad today.
if systemd suspended and we hand't triggered it, and desklock on
suspend is enabled, then lock there and then because we need to. of
course you need systemd/logind... but hey... i guess without you live
with less... :) fixes logic hole
this stops crashes when e menu si still up when the dbus menu backing
it has changed/gone away... by referencing the dbusmenu to hang about
like a bad smell while the e gui menu is up until it's dismissed. this
fixes a real segv i saw with steam.